
February 5 is the official birthday of REM Kanashibari from V4Mirai. I first discovered her in October of 2024 during a Halloween karaoke relay, and since then, she’s become one of my most watched VTubers, so I want to share why I enjoy watching her so much.
REM’s background lore is that of a sleep paralysis demon who is “born to nap, forced to yap.” However, her appeal is best summed up in her own words: “I’m not a comfort streamer, I’m a discomfort streamer.” Using her soothing voice, she banters with her chat, engages in off-the-cuff role plays, and brings to life a variety of low-key yet bizarre stream ideas. The result is an engaging and pleasantly perplexing experience that’s as relaxing as it is head-scratching.
Like many other VTubers, REM does ASMR, and her approach really hits a perfect sweet spot for me. Some ASMR creators might take a more intimate approach, acting as an emotionally healing salve. Others go for something emotionally intense, like yandere roleplay. But REM tends towards much sillier and more experimental scenarios that are tinged with an irreverent sense of humor. Her ASMR themes have included “the worst airline ever,” “rat dying in a glue trap,” “smoking 500 cigarettes,” “crab giving a haircut,” “surgeon who just found out your payment was declined,” and “smothering you with her official hug pillow merch.” One of my absolute favorites is her “pushy door-to-door ASMR salesman” stream, where she uses one of her earpicks to pick your front lock:
According to REM herself, she originally didn’t plan on being an ASMR creator, which is funny because it suits her sleep paralysis demon motif so well. While VTubers often move over time in trajectories away from their lore, REM has, in a sense, grown closer to her concept.
Instead, her original motivation for getting into VTubing was actually to sing, and while she isn’t releasing new music all the time, she does have a number of nice releases. I recommend her 3D concert performance of “Deal with the Devil” (the opening to Kakegurui), REM’s Sleepover (a collab concert with lots of great guests, including Roca Rourin), and her first original song “Stay with Me ???”:
Oh, and she once ate jellied eels because of a donathon goal, and it is apparently the most vile thing she’s ever tasted. As someone who’s wanted to try the (in)famous London dish for years, I appreciated her attempt and lived vicariously (?) through her.
Overall, REM creates an energy all her own, and I’m always looking forward to seeing what she comes up with next. I think she’s very welcoming, and the only barrier is how many jokes about Brazilian butt lifts you can take from her and the chat before tapping out.
PS: REM is having a multi-day birthday celebration. Playlist is below!




